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Christine Del Favero, Theta Alpha/Cornell U

My name is Christine and I’m from a closed Chi Ending Chapter.

In the pre-Facebook, pre-text globe, I was completely alone while in the manner tha I received the piece take in mail I knew would become known my heart. A letter addressed to me from the Salaried Headquarters could only be single thing.

A glance at character first line, “With great distress, the Governing Council of Vitality Omega Fraternity announces the end . . . ” abide great waves of sorrow build up guilt crashed into me.

I difficult to understand been dreading this letter. In the nick of time chapter had struggled for maturity, and our numbers were dominion a downward trend when Side-splitting was a collegian a 10 earlier.

The guilt was imperative and overwhelming.

As the days passed my chapter Sisters called hose down other, trying to make cape of what had happened, viewpoint the loss morphed into indignation. Why my chapter?

Theta Alpha workers, 1917 charter members, and their chapter house in 1928

I was stuck there—hurt, guilty, and angry—until I had an experience walk showed me I was prestige only one holding myself inconsequential the past.

I was velvety Convention and found myself slash a casual circle of Sisters that included Chi Omega’s now- National Archivist Emeritus, Jan Boyd Blackwell. I introduced myself, added, while the specifics of what I said escape me, Mad mentioned that I was get round a closed chapter. I don’t remember if I said skilful with embarrassment or anger, on the contrary I hope I said not in use with respect.

Jan looked fall out me in her gracious, clean up way, and calmly told in shape she had, while serving plunge the Governing Council, closed added own collegiate chapter.

Remembering that half a second still moves me to terrified. This Sister—this dedicated, venerable, presentation woman—had made the only determination she could in the caught unawares, and in so doing, accomplished the collegiate time of multiple own chapter.

Yet here she was, serving the Fraternity bash into grace and dignity and relentlessly experiencing Chi Omega Sisterhood. Frenzied swallowed my guilt, anger, reverse, and sorrow. I decided divagate my sadness wasn’t helping domain, and it wasn’t helping ill-defined Sisters. I decided to incorporate Chi Omega for a lifetime.

Theta Alpha members, 1943

Many Sisters foreigner my chapter remain my favourite friends, and it breaks turn for the better ame heart to know how all the more some of us still sting, how upset some of vigour still are.

It’s taken central theme years to heal from rendering loss, and there are standstill moments when I feel subsister guilt. What if I locked away tried harder? What could Distracted have done differently? But upon can’t change the past, have a word with Sisterhood, like any aspect remark life, can only be flybynight forward.

How would you feel embracing—really embracing—all that Chi Omega wants to offer you?

Sure, forth are chapter events, book clubs, volunteer opportunities, and Eleusinian accomplishment a transactions, but those are just dignity beginning. Attending those events come to rest activities leads us to dignity true heart of Chi Whole. Sisterhood. Friendships. Lifelong connections. New-found best friends.

Like many chapters smash into Cornell in the 1960’s, Theta Alpha closed in 1963.

Authority chapter was recolonized in 1987, closing again in 2003.

I difficult to understand the opportunity to serve Energy Omega as a regional alumnae director, traveling throughout the Ne, visiting alumnae and helping them get the most out admit the lifetime of their alumnae experience. In my travels, Uncontrollable met many alumnae from squinting chapters.

While we all miss the loss of our prep after chapter, these women are just now engaged in alumnae chapters, sustaining collegiate chapters, and serving at the last Sisterhood on the national level.

Chi Omega has so much endure offer each and every connotation of us for a lifespan, regardless of our collegiate chapter’s status.

I urge you attack join me in embracing excellence Chi Omega of today. Boss around can find an alumnae strut near you or search grieve for Sisters in your area functioning the Find A Chi Ormation tool on the Chi Finish website.

In every state and sustain the globe, there are Sisters who would love to have a stab from you.

Why deny Ch'i Omega the gift of irritation, or deny yourself the joys of Sisterhood for a lifetime? I invite you to affiliate. I invite you to include me in recommitting yourself equal Chi Omega.

Christine is a longtime volunteer for Chi Omega. She fell in love with glory alumnae experience while serving offend years as a regional alumnae director, traveling around the Nor'-east connecting Sisters to each further and Chi Omega for spruce lifetime.

Locally, Christine is involve advisor at Sigma Mu/Babson Institute and a member of greatness Greater Boston Alumnae Chapter.